Reflecting on my week #94

I’ve had one of those super productive weekends, the sort that make you wonder what happened the week before. And unlike Stephen Covey I’m starting at the end, and with the new - or rather old - crochet project I picked up last night. I planned to settle in to catch up on some hooking last night when a nagging voice in my head said to measure my navy-yellow-green wrap. I was using the slightly unconventional measuring method of comparing to one of my favourite wraps, one that’s the right length and drapes well. Just as well I did my comparison measuring as my project was at least six inches longer than the wrap.

Picking up an project from earlier in the year

There still seems quite a bit of wool left - so perhaps I could have made my wrap a little wider, but I’m not going back now! I know there’s not that much left though as the cardboard I used to start the ball of is just starting to show. But after planning to do some crochet, while MOH cooked tea, my hands were at a bit of a loss. So I turned back to some squares, which I first picked up in March this year, and the project which came to Portugal and then Liverpool and remained untouched. But now I’m already a square down and making good progress on the next.

The pattern is much more brightly coloured and designed to replicate Portuguese tiles, and while mine will be variants of grey with the multi coloured yarn I’m using, I think that will mean I’ll focus on the stitch detail. I’m pretty sure though at some point I’ll be making a full on colour version too!

the much smaller ball of wool that's left

Most of Saturday and Sunday were spent in the garden, which is why the evening of crochet really appealed. In the greenhouse I made a tomato discovery, and the salad leaves just outside the door are doing well too. Less so my kale seedlings which were nibbled the very night before I planned to plant them out. Some may make it, but I think I’ll be sowing some more and hoping they survive and catch up with where there should be.

our first tomato of the year

Our agapanthus are still cheery though, the flowers are mostly out and there’s a haze of white blooms just outside our conservatory. The second pot of agapanthus, which is in a more sheltered position has no flowers and it’s clear it’s not happy there so once I’ve bought some more to bolster its presence it’ll be moving into the pot next to these. That sort of makes me a little twitchy as we’ll lose the symmetry of planting, but if the plants aren’t happy there, then it’s all a bit half-hearted really. The plan is to fill the three pots by the window of the conservatory with ferns, which should be very happy with the shady, and damper conditions.

agapanthus in bloom

My project for the weekend was one of those that now you’ve started was much bigger than you first thought. This section of the garden is just along from where our new neighbour had some over enthusiastic pruning. That hasn’t been repeated so I shall be magnanimous and put it down to an enthusiastic error. The ivy which they’ve cut from their side has now died, and so this weekend I released it from the trellis from our side of the fence. It was quite something when with that final snip if fell away from the trellis, and relief from me that it was quite happy to fall on the other side of the fence.

I’d kept as much of the top growth that I could, so that I could work out if it was worth saving, or not. And with the trellis showing for the first time in many years we were keen to have something grow back there quite quickly. So my next job was to ‘encourage’ the plants to grow where I wanted them, I think there’s almost as much twine as plant in the end result.

work in progress in the garden
still more to do but it's getting there

It’s still a work in progress and these pictures are for those of you who are pleased to know my garden is a real garden and goes through scruffy looking moments too. The photo above is how I left it, as well the crocheting was calling and as I said earlier in this post MOH was cooking dinner. That means there’s a constant stream of questions asking where this is and where that is, in fact it’s hardly relaxing at all. It’s just as well the results are always tasty; yesterday he cooked duck legs in a tomato and date sauce, which tasted way nicer than I’ve just made it sound.

Manly gin from the Craft Gin Club

It wasn’t all gardening and crochet though. There was gin too. Our latest box of gin had arrived during the week and it only seemed right to try it out. I was a fan, but then again I much prefer botanical gins. MOH prefers dry gin, and while he was happy to drink this one he would choose something more to his palate. He thinks I was swayed by the name, as that’s one of the places I stayed when I popped over to Australia for a few weeks back in the millennium. It’s also a place I’d happily go back to too, especially now I know they have at least one distillery.

Copper flowers, and a spot to relax too

For today’s Flowers on Friday we’re heading back to the 2018 Chelsea Flower Show, for a closer look at these copper flowers by Myburgh Designs. I’ve just taken a look at their site, and believe me it’s a very beautiful and potentially dangerous place. They had a garden at Chelsea this year, but when I fell in love with these copper flowers - and more - last year, they had a corner plot which I’m not sure many people stopped by and enjoyed.

looking down at the copper flowers

These poppies look right at home in the border mixed with the red and white flowers. They’re relatively reasonably priced too, which is always a result, as I have a tendency to sniff out the priciest items.

copper flowers in the border at Chelsea

I think a mixture of sizes works well, and the website says they have a life of their own collecting water for birds in the garden, or could be used to hold candles.

adding a touch of copper to the border at RHS Chelsea in 2018

But my favourite way to enjoy them would be just as it was at the show, from this copper pod.

A copper place to relax too

Which I’m sure proves my earlier point about falling for the high ticket items, but who can blame me?

Post Comment Love and Blogger Showcase 2 - 4 August

Hello there and welcome to this week’s #PoCoLo a friendly linky where you can link any post published in the last week. Both Morgan and I know you’ll find some great posts to read, and maybe some new-to-you blogs too, so do pop over and visit some of the posts linked and share some of that love.

It’s been a week where I’ve had no idea what day it is, sometimes that’s been bliss but mostly it’s been annoying and confusing. It’s amused my work colleagues though, especially when asking what day it was on Monday. I seem to be over-busy at work and i’m putting it down to that, rather than anything more serious.

But some serious downtime is needed - and will hopefully happen - this weekend. I have finally, started to edit my photos from our trip to Portugal, and this week’s photo is one of those. It’s from the garden of one of the restaurants we ate in in Lisbon, and I’ve a post coming on the whole restaurant in the next week or so.

A flower at the Pharmacy in Lisbon

Blogger Showcase: Robin from Mastering the Side Jam

1 Who are you?

My name is Robin, I’m in my mid-forties, and have two sons who are in their twenties. I’m actually their step-mom, but I’m the one who raised them from when they were toddlers. I have a full-time job, so do my blogging on nights and weekends. Other than that, you can find me hanging out with my two bulldogs or reading a good book.  

2 How did you discover blogging?

I discovered blogging accidentally, when I was looking around on the internet for survey companies to try. I’d been doing surveys for years, back before there was an internet! You’d actually get them in the mail, fill them out, mail them back -- and then you’d eventually receive a paper check. It’s sooo much easier now to do it online. One of the posts I read talked about blogging to make money -- and I thought, I could probably write a blog post about doing surveys. Why not try it?

3 Why did you start blogging?

Initially, my main goal was money-focused. But as I started learning more about building my website, optimizing for SEO, writing content directed to my audience -- all of those aspects were just so interesting to me, that I wanted to learn and do more. As of right now, I’ve created (and am trying to maintain) four different blogs. Which is insane, because I totally cannot handle it all -- but it’s just so amazing and fun to do!

4 What do you find most challenging?

The most challenging piece for me is definitely the social interaction. I’m an introvert, and I have social anxiety so I get really anxious in networking situations. Even over the internet -- you’d be surprised how intimidating it can be to even reach out to someone via Twitter or email. I’m someone who is comfortable working independently. However, that’s not the way of the blogging world, which is something I learned several months into the process. You need support, interaction, and you definitely need to be a team player.

5 What is your favourite topic to write about?

I love to write about personal experiences, especially when it comes to finding your voice or coming into your own. While the topic isn’t directly related to finances or money (which is my niche), I firmly believe mindset definitely dictates your success in all things. And that includes confidence, health, relationships, and also finances.

6 Are you blogging for fun or do you have goals?

While blogging is fun for me, and I can’t imagine giving it up -- I do have goals. I’d like to build my brand into a small-scale business. Enough to supplement my income, since I don’t imagine leaving my day job. (But I mean -- if that happened, I’d be over the moon!) Right now, I’d like to be able to earn money consistently, to maintain my blogs, pay a bunch of bills, grow a nest egg, and not have to worry about the future.

7 What is your favourite thing about blogging?

My favorite thing about blogging is the creative process. When you think about the thousands (or millions?) of blogs out there, all with different content. All of these ideas emanated from someone’s imagination, or experiences. Some content may be similar, but none are exactly the same. 

8 Have you ever attended a blogging conference, and if so what did you think?

I attended FinCon 2018 in Orlando, Florida, USA. It was my very first conference, and it was a doozy. For a socially anxious introvert, being dropped into this frenzy of 2,200 people networking, collaborating, and partying -- let’s just say it was a bit more than what I was ready for. Especially since I didn’t know anyone else there. But I believe every challenge makes us stronger, so I look forward to the next conference I’m able to attend. Plus I know more people now, so won’t be quite as uncomfortable as before.

9 What are your three best posts?

  1. The Day I Got Five More Minutes with My Mom

  2. 13 Lessons Horror Movies Teach Us About Personal Finance

  3. How I Learned to Blog Anonymously, and Why I Stopped

10 Describe yourself in 3 words

Introspective. Curious. Loyal.

11 Are you a tea and biscuits or a coffee and cake person?

Coffee and cake, most definitely. And if it’s ice cream cake, even better!

12 What’s your idea of the perfect night out?

Small group of people, a casual dinner at a nice restaurant, maybe a movie or broadway show afterwards

13 And the perfect night in?

Winter time, it’s snowing outside (and I don’t need to go anywhere), fire blazing in the fireplace, reading a book or watching a good movie, with my two puppies next to me.

14 What would your best friend/OH/mum or kids say is your best quality?

My organizational skills. I’m usually very prepared, make lists for everything, and like to think scenarios through prior to making decisions. Definitely not a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants sort of gal. 


Thanks Robin for sharing more about you and your blog, and I’m so glad you got in touch with us over Twitter. You can connect with Robin on her social channels here: Facebook - Twitter - Instagram - Pinterest.

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