Reflecting on my week #103

For most of last week we’ve been debating whether or not to watch the Rugby World Cup Final at home, or to head to the pub. Up until now we’ve watched all of the games at home, mostly as they’ve been fairly early. The one that was scheduled to be later, was the one that cancelled. In the end we didn’t make a decision until Saturday morning, after a fair bit of research during the week to identify the most suitable pub. That turned out to be one almost at the end of our garden (and over the road), which I’ve never actually been in before.

And so at 8.30 on Saturday morning after a very late decision we found ourselves queueing with plenty of regulars to get into the pub. And shortly after the rugby started we were armed with a pint of Guinness and a bacon roll, and a couple more of the former followed during the game too.

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As you’ll know the result wasn’t quite the one we were hoping for, especially after the game the previous Saturday, but the best side on the day won. And we found a pub that we’d happily go back to, and not just for the Guinness. The weather for most of the weekend, bar Sunday morning, has been pretty awful. At one point it looked like the big, free local firework display might be cancelled. We’d decided not to go this year, and I was pleased about that when I looked out the window.

Instead we spent much of the weekend indoors catching up with chores we’ve had little time to do during the week and some forward planning. You’ll know how much I like a plan, and it’s no different for our meals during the week. We have plenty of food in, and through meal planning, we’ll make the most of it for lunches and dinners this week and some for the freezer too, which during busy weeks are an absolute life saver, and it means we eat well too.

meal prep sunday

This weekend alone there’s now a slow cooked blade of beef chilli and some sag paneer in the freezer and for lunch respectively, added to the beef and butternut squash stew that’s already frozen and ready for when it’s needed. For lunches this week there’s already some buckwheat groats cooked to go with the leftover sag paneer, and some coronation chickpeas (think coronation chicken, but with chickpeas). There’s some plum crumble leftover too, which I’m sure will disappear quickly, and while the oven was on I roasted some beetroot which we’ll have with our lunches too.

We’ve branched out on our TV watching too; usually it’s plenty of home-type shows, Salvage Hunters and GBBO, other cooking shows. and sport. I record much more, but we tend to stick to our old faithfuls (or the same old c**p as we call it). Over the past week or so we’ve lightly-binge-watched The Widow, which it turns out was on ITV back in April. It’s the one with Kate Beckinsale, Alex Kingston and Charles Dance, and I suspect we’re the last people to actually watch it!

I’ve plenty more long-time recorded dramas to catch up on too, one day…

Our neighbour has finally started his building work, which will create a small, outside space for his first and second floor flat, on the top of his bathroom’s flat roof. It’s a challenging build, not least for the scaffolding, as he doesn’t have any ground floor access at the back. All of the scaffolding has come up the front, through the roof void, and down the back, and our view of it at the rear looks like this:

our view of next door's scaffolding

There’s a lot more scaffolding than we were expecting, but it’ll only be there for a month or so (we hope). It’s out the front too, and I’ve not quite got used to the view of the workmen arriving for work and heading past our bedroom window.

A ladder goes past our bedroom window

We’ve a couple of domestic woes too. Through the process of elimination, we’ve confirmed our boiler is leaking. We initially thought the water only appeared when it rained heavily, but that’s not the case. We now know that it leaks within fifteen minutes, which isn’t good news, so our plumber is due to come back.

The second is wasps. And not in gardening gloves this time, but in our study. Each time we’ve been in the room we’ve discovered one or two wasps climbing up the window, and so dutifully we’ve let them out. Keeping a tally, we realised it wasn’t the once or twice off we’d both thought. Yesterday we took a closer look, MOH was convinced they were in my craft supplies (they weren’t) and with things moved out of the way we’ve worked out they’re not inside, but are more likely in the mansard roof, somewhere, possibly behind the slates.

Of course, while I’ve been on wasp watch, none appeared. Talking to our neighbour (the one with the scaffolding) he too had noticed an increase of dozy wasps, and thinks they could be in the ivy growing on the ground floor flat’s walls. They could be, but it’s a really good time for there to be scaffolding up, not that I’ll be going up it, or anywhere near it in fact.

The joys of having a house hey?

Get down to earth this November

It’s definitely all change in the garden this month. Now the rain has stopped and we have crisper days, and falling leaves it’s a much prettier and dramatic sight. The trees over the road from my office window are the most gorgeous colours.

There’s plenty to keep us busy in the gardens, when we can get out there. There’s summer bedding to clear away, border perennials to cut down, veg plots to clear and leaves to collect and store for leaf mould which in turn into mulch for feeding the soil.

Often it’s the thought of getting out into the garden in the colder months that deter us from heading out into the garden, but as I found last week, once I was out there I was fine and found plenty to do. Gardening throughout the year brings many benefits, including keeping us active in the fresh air. Direct contact with soil has been shown to be valuable to our mental health and wellbeing. Research has demonstrated the value of ‘earthing’ or ‘grounding’ in alleviating health problems, relieving stress and improving our mood and restful sleep.

So according to the research, getting dirty in the garden could be just what we need! And confirm what I think we already know, that gardening is great therapy.

Plants of the moment

Autumn is a good time for planning and planting, establishing plants into warm soil before the real onset of winter. Large patio pots, tubs, troughs and baskets can also be planted with a selection of evergreen, flowering and berrying plants to provide colour and interest over the colder months ahead.

Many bare-rooted plants are only available from the autumn and they offer great value for hedging and planting projects.

Look out for:

  • Skimmia varieties

  • Cyclamen

  • Mahonia

  • Vibernum

  • Dogwoods and

  • Heathers.

Gardening is good for you
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Post Comment Love 1 - 3 November

Hello there and welcome to this week’s #PoCoLo a friendly linky where you can link any post published in the last week. Both Morgan and I know you’ll find some great posts to read, and maybe some new-to-you blogs too, so do pop over and visit some of the posts linked and share some of that love.

I’m writing this on Hallowe’en, watching Strictly and upholding my usual tradition of keeping a low profile, or as my neighbour said “curtains closed, no sudden movements and lights down low.” I’m sure little kids have fun, and older kids have even more fun trick and treating but it’s not something we ever celebrated and I’m not a fan.

That said though the crisper weather this week has made it feel like firework night isn’t far away, although I’m not sure where September and October have gone. Now I’ve less than thirty days to sort my Christmas shopping out as our family get together is at the end of this month. That is scary.

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Some news

Before we get on to linking up, this week Morgan and I have some news to share, which is that sadly Morgan is hanging up her blogging hat, and so I will be looking for a new cohost for this linky. It’s sad news, and I’m sure wasn’t a decision taken lightly and I’ll be sad to see Morgan stop blogging and cohosting here. Since we took over this fabulous linky back at the start of 2016 - I know, how quickly has that gone, that’s almost two hundred link parties in that time, which is some partying, I’ve obviously got to know Morgan, and we’ve met a couple of times at blogging events too, and I will truly miss her.

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