Reflecting on my week #136

Wednesday again, and I’m only just getting my thoughts together for this post, it seems that time is still something eaten by this pandemic. But the past week has seen even more what used to be normal activities take place, including a weekend visit to Norfolk to see my parents, a day out of the house and getting into the habit of baking bread again.

getting my sourdough back on

The latter never seems to hang around for long though!

We had a random midweek day off, and managed to time it to coincide with some lovely blue skies, and feeling the need to do something, we headed out for a walk along the Thames Path. We used to cycle that way pretty regularly and I was interested to see how it had changed, especially the section closest to the Thames Barrier.

As we were on foot, that’s where we planned to start so took a more direct route there. MOH still cycles this way occasionally and shared information about a new walkway, which is where some of the pictures of the pigeon cruise were taken from.

But to get there we walked through an old industrial area, which looked stunning in the sun. I’m under no illusion that it would have looked a lot less ‘Cuba-esque’ on a more dreary day.

exploring an old industrial area in charlton

It’s about to be redeveloped, and has the real potential to become a thriving community, adding to the arts centres and local businesses located close by. I hope it doesn’t lose all of its character, though the greenery sprouting from the building probably won’t survive.

We forget don’t we, what we have on our doorsteps - It was good to remind myself of views like this as we walked towards Greenwich. I have plenty more photos, so expect a couple more posts yet.

a jetty on the thames

We stopped for lunch in the pub, our first visit since they reopened here. Sitting outside, enjoying the view and a pint it was almost believable that life was normal. Though there were new ways of operating - everything ordered through an app, not going to the bar etc. - which weren’t immediately clear or obvious, but we got there. By the time we arrived home, we’d clocked up over 22,000 steps and was a little pinker from the sun than we’d have liked. Neither of us were up for much active gardening, and so spent the late afternoon with our feet up and enjoying the weather.

santolini at hunstanton

We headed to Norfolk at the weekend to see my parents, our first trip since the middle of March. It was good to see them in person (obviously) and good to have a wander along the front, although it was way busier than anywhere I’d been for a while, which was a little disconcerting. The black clouds were looming though, and I think most people were heading home to stay dry. Not quite so for us, but luckily, as the rain started we were close to a small and pretty much empty cafe, so stopped for an ice cream and sheltering under their cover.

a childhood masterpiece

Mum and dad have been on a bit of a clear out mission it seems, going through their loft and finding some absolute treasures, like the masterpiece above. I’ve no recollection of it, but it was assumed to be mine, as my brother commented that he didn’t think he could draw that well now, let alone then. I think we do lose our drawing skills, or maybe it’s our confidence to draw, that we lose?

dad's runner beans

We left with more than we arrived with, including our first runner bean of the season, which were promptly eaten with pasta the very next evening. I don’t think mine will be far behind either, so that’s good too. They are one vegetable we rarely, if ever, buy and I’m mildly amused to see them in the shops too. They are somewhat of a family tradition, and it won’t be that long before our freezers fill up with sliced beans, just so there’s enough to ‘see us through’ and for Christmas lunch too.

finally a flower on my tomatoes

There was more excitement in the greenhouse too when I checked it early on Monday morning - my tomato plants finally have a flower. We might have tomatoes after all…

Reflecting on my week #135

Well this weekend was definitely a weekend of two days weather-wise here. Sunny and sun lounger weather on Saturday, much less so on Sunday. Both though have been relatively easy days for us. I’ve realised that I’m not really switching off from work, or being online at the moment, and so something needed to be done. I thought perhaps some crafting would help, and I’m sure it would have, but I was in a dither about what and where to start, so another plan was needed.

I realised that I’d not read a book since before lockdown. I also know how good they are for taking some time. So this weekend that’s what I did. I could have read an e-book on my iPad, but I opted to go old school and picked up one of the actual books mum had shared with me. It wasn’t particularly high-brow, and the plot turned out to be pretty predictable, but you know what. It’s just what I needed. And the sun lounger setting wasn’t so bad either.

feet up, book out, a sunlounger afternoon

I finished it today, and was pleased to have done so. But also pleased as it held my attention more than an e-book might have done. I am an obsessive book reader, so losing myself in this was good for me, this weekend. I know I’ve another busy week ahead and so it was good preparation, and an enjoyable book!

This weekend I also realised just how much I’d missed eating out. We headed to a local restaurant, Copper & Ink, which I’ve mentioned here before. Even with its Covid-secure arrangements it’s still as good as ever, and we’ll be heading back, both for an in-restaurant experience and to take advantage of their takeaway options too. As ever I only thought about photos once my plate was clean…

an empty plate with fork and spoon

As ever we went for the easy choice and very tasty option of the tasting menu. What I especially love about this restaurant is how willing and prepared they are to swap out dishes for people with allergens. So instead of the crab cakes and crab bisque, for me it was a fantastic chicory citrus salad. We also opted for the wine pairings and a couple of cocktails. And I’ve got my eye on the octopus salad for takeout - and yes, i’m ok with octopus, semi-ok with crab - but it’s not something I want to put to the test, just in case and less ok with some other seafood. Yes, my body is weird, but it’s how it is.

It has been a funny week here, starting with some potential redundancy news for MOH. During the week that confirmed itself, and what will be will be, and in truth he’s been waiting for it to make itself known. We won’t know more until the end of the summer, but I’m sure he won’t be the only one facing this kind of wait, and for some, it will be a lot more anxious.

We woke on Sunday to rain. Complete contrast to the previous day, and the snails were making the most of it, sliming all over my agapanthus and some of our beans, which seem to have tripled in size overnight.

agapanthus starting to flower in the rain
salad leaves from the garden

One thing about working from home - and last week as week 17, that’s over four months - is that we can pop out to the garden to pick our salad leaves for lunch. That’s pretty special, and they are way tastier than those bags of salad. I think we’ve a few more weeks working from home ahead of us, and hopefully plenty more salad pickings too. Though I probably should sow some more, just to make sure.

Lockdown learnings #2

The first post of this series covered food, this takes the next step and covers shopping. At the start of lockdown there was a focus on buying only essential items, which some took to extremes, with reports that Easter eggs weren’t deemed essentials. They were in this house, and we were fortunate enough to have thought a little ahead and were able to buy and leave eggs with my parents on our visit to see them before lockdown started in March. They were equally as forward thinking and we were able to swap eggs way in advance of the day. We were good, and managed not to eat them until Easter Day, I’m amazed, you’re amazed, but it’s also true that they were demolished in a just a day or so.

But back to shopping, and how it’s changed and how we’ve all quickly adapted.

1. Queuing to get in

Shopping during lockdown has become very different, even as more shops have started to open, and probably especially so. We are excelling at queuing, this time to get into shops, who’d have thought? The queues for the shops near us are orderly, everyone does it, keeps their distance and is polite - in some ways it’s quite the revolution. We’ve learnt that the best time to visit our local small-ish supermarket is around 6pm, which is fine, unless we want to go to the butchers too. He’s now closed on Mondays and Wednesdays so it needs some planning in advance, and knowing which day it is, which is another of lockdown’s challenges.

We’ve seen more and more people wearing masks while out shopping, and I think that’s what will continue to happen, with the government extending advice - or maybe stronger - to wear them while in shops as well as on public transport. The fact that Boris has now been pictured in a mask seems to indicate this, and is quite a departure from the early stance of wearing them not being backed by science.

What we noticed in the early days of people wearing masks in shops was a sense of invincibility. Theirs, they seemed to think wearing a cloth or more substantial face covering gave ultimate protection and they would swarm around people taking care to socially distance in aisles. Looming in and reaching over you as they picked something off the shelf. It’s true that face coverings protect others, but so does socially distancing and I think respecting both is a better approach all round.

2. Baskets vs bags

Queueing to get into shops isn’t the only thing that’s changed. We’re still not using those metal shopping baskets, or trolleys, instead we’re using our own bags, and no one bats an eyelid. It feels odd, it feels wrong, and I feel guilty, but we’re still doing it, no one’s objecting, and we’re not the only ones either. We are of course honest and do that very British thing about making a big show that our shopping bags are empty once we get to the till. I’m sure no one notices, but we feel better for it.

TALKING OF BEING BRITISH:  TEA AND A TEAPOT HAS BECOME OUR AFTERNOON TRADITION

TALKING OF BEING BRITISH: TEA AND A TEAPOT HAS BECOME OUR AFTERNOON TRADITION

3. Tactics, and a waiting game

In the earlier days of lockdown getting an online shopping slot was hard, to say the least. It required skilled tactical moves, late nights and often quite a bit of luck. I was happily tasked with securing online slots for my parents too, and once we’d sussed out when their supermarket released their slots, it was easier and more of a waiting game. Waiting to see what slots they had, which would be available and how long the virtual queue would be to get into the online shop. Another queue.

I had more luck with Tescos than Ocado, which having been an Ocado customer for many years was pretty frustrating. And that’s when I realised that…

4. Loyalty is different for everyone

And while I might have been loyal to Ocado over many years, they weren’t as loyal to me. So much so that at one point I wasn’t even able to get onto their site. I was all for taking my online shopping elsewhere, and I did. Tescos online shop booked and delivered. The only thing is, I wasn’t so keen on their products, partly because I wasn’t so familiar with them.

With Ocado splitting from Waitrose later in the year, my split from Ocado was always likely. Our local supermarket is an M&S store, and while it’s good for top up shops, it’s not somewhere I want to do my monthly shop. Tescos was being tested as a replacement too, and let’s just say they’re no longer in the frame, well not for everything.

What’s changed is that I’ve realised I can shop around, even with online deliveries. Tescos didn’t sell the Quince Jelly I was after, or in their online shop at least, and so I went direct. I bought a little more than I would have in one go, but the only jar that I’d not bought before was the salted caramel spread (which we’ve yet to try), but otherwise these are all things we buy.

I can see that this will be a way for me to shop in the future, going direct to buy the products I want. We already use a local butcher, greengrocer and veg delivery company, and so it’s just a further extension of this. I do wonder if the bigger supermarkets will start to see a downturn from a way we’ve shopped for the past twenty or thirty years.

BOUGHT DIRECT FROM TIPTREE

BOUGHT DIRECT FROM TIPTREE

5. Growing numbers of carrier bags and cardboard boxes

During lockdown we’ve amassed more of these than we usually would. Normally we’d hand these back to the driver, but lockdown rules are different. While I know they can go into our recycle bin, I still can’t quite bring myself to do that, yet. We’re reusing some, especially cardboard boxes, but I’ve genuinely less use for carrier bags.

We’re recycling the packing from parcels as we usually would, but the boxes that our veg come in especially, are useful. I’m loathed to chuck these out (in the recycling bin) as the company could reuse these and reduce their costs. I know there’s different rules in this lockdown, but I am reluctant to see the increase of plastic and unnecessary waste, but also I’m close to the point where my carrier bag of carrier bags is overflowing. And besides that, just think of all those 5ps!

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