Reflecting on my week #129

The good news is that the plants I had MOH saw in half last weekend have survived, and so my request has been seen as slightly less mad, which is good news. I think it’s a family thing as talking to my dad he told me he’d done the same with is dahlias, and they were growing too.

This week, even though the lockdown advice has changed to stay alert from stay home, we haven’t really changed our routine much. In fact, I think we’ve been out less, we’ve definitely avoided the local M&S. I did pop to the local parade of shops on Saturday and worryingly the chemist had one of the longest queues, second only to the local supermarket. So my trip focussed on the butchers, the greengrocers and the bakers - which definitely makes me sound like a 1950s housewife. Though if anything does come out of this, whether it’s making much more use of our local shops, or noticing our environment more then that can only be a good thing.

I think I’m usually quite an observant person, but even I’m noticing more of my surroundings. Saturday I walked the quieter, and slightly longer way back from the shops, pausing briefly to snap this picture of a yellow rose I’d noticed. I think it’s important to note down how things have changed for us, and what we’re noticing, and being a lover of lists I’ve been keeping one of my own observations. I hope to start to share them here soon, there’s nothing profound, I mean one of the entries is learning that husbands and pulses don’t mix so well, but they our experiences and as frustrating as lockdown can be, I don’t want to lose those thoughts.

A yellow rose while out and about

This week Facebook scrolling threw up one of those weird things that only social media can. As i was scrolling through my timeline, I spotted a street scene that was all too familiar, the road of our childhood home. Looking more closely, the wall of the house looked oh-so-familiar too, reading the post it had been posted by one of the children who’d lived in our house (though obviously theirs at the time) before us. How peculiar was that?

me outside our front door in the 70s

That prompted a flurry of memories for, not only me, but mum and dad and my brother too. I looked through my photos of photos from mum and dad’s photo albums, but could only find this one of me outside the front door. Clearly before photos in your school uniform became the norm. Here I’m in my bridesmaid outfit for my aunt’s wedding, in Bristol. No idea why, but it must have been after the actual wedding as I have my bouquet, and that red pinafore was floor length and red velvet. I told you it was the 1970s.

I looked our old house up on Google Maps, and it seems they still have the same front door, and i’m sad to say the house looked a little worse for wear.

But the memories in our family Facebook chat were priceless.

We remembered building work to make the downstairs a ‘through room’ which was so very modern, the tortoise that kept escaping and who was once found in the middle of a neighbour’s manicured lawn, and no dandelion was going to tempt him to move. The tortoise, called Joey, was mine - but I didn’t like to pick him up - so our neighbour carried him home for me. I guess if you had a manicured lawn and a rogue tortoise in the middle of it, you would carry it home.

Joey was always the adventurer, and many years later learnt that swimming wasn’t his thing. We remembered dad painting the terracotta tiles in the porch, and having to leave the house via a plank while they dried, which my brother remembered as us being pirates. I’ve no idea what my nieces thought of it all. Though I suspect they saw a different side of their grandparents when they shared that when they moved in (in 1963) they didn’t have a back door key, so to start with had to access the back garden by climbing out the window!

Even though I’m close to finishing my Vintage Hearts blanket, I wanted a new project and one that (I hope) will finish more quickly. I was also keen to see how the colour combination would work. I bought this mint and pale blue cotton a while back, and didn’t use it as I’d expected. In fact, I didn’t use it at all. Taking a strand of each colour, and a much chunkier than usual hook, I’ve completed two squares for what will be a protective sleeve for my laptop. Yes, I’m already hoping that at some point I’ll be able to take my laptop out of the house again!

starting a crochet laptop sleeve

It works up quickly, and the colour combination is pleasing. MOH thinks it’s bright, i think it’s pastel and can’t help but think that the coral and bright pink combo I’d also thought of, might actually be bright.

We’ve spent a fair amount of time in the garden again this weekend. Working at home has given us insight into what goes on in our garden during the day, and during the week. We’ve learnt it’s cat central, with them boldly heading for a closer look through the patio doors. As soon as we move, our feline visitors scarper. Though it seems they’re getting more used to us, as I looked up after lunch today, this was my view - my very own cat traffic jam, but both of these are #NotMyCat

A TRAFFIC JAM OF #NOTMYCATS

A TRAFFIC JAM OF #NOTMYCATS

Our gardening this weekend has been less frenetic, and our bins are less full, but that’s ok. The greenhouse seedlings needed some attention, and now the beans are planted out. Some of have joined the two broad beans tied into the canes with the toadstools on. The borlotti/runner bean mix (I can’t remember which are which) are already taller, or as tall as the broad beans. There’s another couple of pots too, as well as nasturtiums in a couple more. I’ve sown some more basil and lettuce, to replace those that got munched, and tried some spring onions again - I’m hoping for some to germinate this time round!

beans planted out

Another gin box arrived this month and we’ve broken into it this weekend. MOH cooked paella Saturday evening, and so that seemed the perfect accompaniment to cooking. Both were very good, and while we’ll have paella for lunch a couple of times this week, we’ll skip the gin, well until later in the day anyway!

gin cocktails while cooking tea

So another busy week, a busy weekend, and still in lockdown - I think we’ll be here for a while yet, and thankfully the gin isn’t about the run out anytime soon!

Reflecting on my week #128

Well, my online shopping arrived with almost no fanfare and no drama, except for some very late omissions which I still haven’t received an email about. There were the expected omissions - plain flour, which seems to be literally like gold dust here at the moment. Today though our local shop had some self-raising flour, so now do I too.

I made a cake at the weekend - a coffee and just-about-enough-walnut cake - which used self-raising flour, so I’m happy enough. The no-show from the shopping which left me slight more perturbed was the lack of tomato ketchup, thankfully that has been easier to source (pun not intended, but I’m keeping it in as it amused me).

Fish and chips without ketchup, nope, not here. Especially fish shop fish and chips, which has in fact been our only takeaway during the lockdown, and which tasted so good (with ketchup).

flags at the window

The cake was in part to commemorate VE Day, and so out came the cake stand and I even added buttercup, with walnut decorations too, though less than the recipe said.

When you read, or listened to the stories from VE Day it’s hard to imagine the enormity and the significance of the day. It was definitely a day that should be marked, and had the planned events taken place I’m sure we would have seen them on the TV, even if it was long after they’d taken place.

And so, out came my flag, which I bought back in 2012 and took along on our visits to the venues at the Olympic Park. It hung in our front window the whole day, and proudly too, even forming the backdrop for a video call, or two.

cake on a stand for VE day

Much of the rest of the weekend was spent in the garden. Some gardening, some lounging in the sun. It was too nice not to! We were even out gardening on Sunday, which was much chillier than the days before. This weekend the focus of our gardening was on yet another tangle of jasmine and pyracantha, this time with some dogwoods, ivy and a cherry tree thrown in for good measure.

scissors and twine in my favourite corner of the garden

It’s looking tidier, but as ever, there’s still more to do. Though as you can see, there was some time spent tying the jasmine’s new growth (and some of the older growth too) onto the trellis.

We split a plant that dad had given us a few years back which had grown and grown, and was threatening to take over the raised sleeper bed at the end of our garden. It had grown with two stems, but even so MOH didn’t seem convinced when I handed him the saw and marked where to cut.

Both halves retained good roots, and so I’m hopeful both will survive. One half went back where it came from, and the second into one of the pots we manhandled into place just a couple of weekends ago. I’m findings that more and more, gardening is becoming a large puzzle and tasks are counter-dependant, so we find ourselves in a chain or sequence waiting for nature to catch up with us and our plans.

We’ll get there, and hopefully our plants will too - especially both halves of the one I had MOH saw!

Just before Lockdown Loos

It’s been a while since I’ve had a Loo Series post, so as I’ve got one from just before lockdown, and because I’m lamenting my second cancelled hair appointment, I’m sharing it today. We’d popped to Norfolk in the middle of March as we thought that things were about to change, in fact they changed after the following weekend, so our timing was spot on. We’d gone out for dinner to the Rose & Crown in Snettisham, which was a lovely place and one we’d go back to, and which had been on my parents’ to visit list since they moved to Norfolk in the early 2000s, so it was good to unknowingly tick it off their list.

please wash your hands

At the time I was three weeks into my haircut cycle, with an appointment booked at the start of April. That didn’t happen, and my appointment was rearranged for yesterday, which clearly didn’t happen either. So now it’s 11 weeks since my last haircut, which for a regular six-weeker is quite disconcerting, and it’s what I’m liking least about the lockdown. Which makes me sound quite vain, but as my hair grows out as well as down, I have a lot more hair than I’m used to - there’s a reason why I have short hair and have it cut regularly.

Of course I’m not the only one missing their hair appointment, which means when they do reopen appointments won’t be happening immediately either. That’s frustrating too, though I’m decided that I will be taking the first appointment I can, even if that’s during the day. I’ve considered letting MOH loose on my hair, not just the fluffy bits on the back of my neck, but then again I’m not sure he’s qualified. I’m not qualified to cut my fringe and thin the shorter side, and it doesn’t and hasn’t stopped me, but that’s me doing it to me, not him. I’m not sure he’d be so keen either.

mirrors with crowns at the Rose & Crown in Snettisham

But anyway, back to the loos as you can see the advice to wash your hands was clearly on display. While essential, they weren’t a patch on the other artwork. Plenty of red, now that’s much more my thing.

beaucoup de rouge artwork

The pub was busy when we went, perhaps that’s usual, or perhaps everyone else was expecting the lockdown too. We sat in an area towards the back, which as we’d parked in the road at the front meant we had to weave our way through the whole building. It was worth it though, both the food, decor and service were great and it’s easy to see why they’ve won the awards they have.

fairylights and rustic style back in the restaurant

And just to prove my point about the length of my hair, and so this becomes part of my lockdown story. Three weeks in to my haircut and my hair’s not even at my chin - it’s also a lot less grey! And excuse my face, I’ve no idea what or why I’m pulling the face, in my defence it’s the only one I have!

me - remembering how short my hair was

Here’s looking forward to being able to visit family, restaurants and, sorry mum and dad, having my hair cut!